Millionaire Dating Warning Signs of Jealousy in Men

jealous is not synonymous to being possessive. In fact, healthy relationships require for a little jealousy for both parties, as it is an affirmation of the love between the two partners. But there is a thin line beyond which jealousy gets bad and the little green-eyed monster plaguing your sugardaddie or millionaire match, becomes not-so-little anymore.

As the woman in the relationship, you need to watch out for these warning signs to find out if your partner is not the “gentleman” he is setting out to be:

1. Too much determination to spend more and more time with you. This in itself is not a bad thing. I mean, who wouldn’t want to spend their time with a great woman like you? However, alarm bells should start ringing in your head if he insists on spending more and more time with you that it eats up your time with your buddies and friends offline. He insists on chatting with you right after work, like if your work stops at 5, he’ll be at the chatroom or email you at the exact dot. He’ll ask you why you were late and who you were with, then at what time did you exactly get out of work, and how much time you spent on travel. In brief, he’s checking up on you. Making sure that you know that he’s waiting will push you to be back home at certain times to be able to go online with him.

2. Too much involvement with your social life. He would insist on knowing each and everyone of your friends and family members. When he sees you chatting or talking with someone he was not introduced to, then will get irrationally angry and demand who is on the other line. Why does he do this? Well, he’s worried that you might leave him for that guy on the chatroom or on the phone. Again, he doesn’t think that he deserves to be loved, so he would always wonder why you would love him and he will be constantly afraid that you’ll leave him for a better man. He would show and say how your friends act as bad influences, and it would do better for you to dump them and spend more time with him.

3. Too much involvement with what you wear. Admit it, as women, we love to make a fashion statement. We always try to look our very best when we go out, right? Even if we’re only meeting someone through the web cam. This is when you can first discover that he is jealous and possessive. How? He will try to influence you and the way you dress. He will insist that you change into something else if he sees you wearing a particular set of clothes. He will ask you what you’re going to wear when you go out, and insist that no, you can’t wear these types of shorts or skirts, and no, you cannot go out in spaghetti-strapped blouses. If this happens, then tell your guy gently, that you are comfortable with your clothes and you will wear what you want and he’ll have to live with it. But again, say this gently, so as not to arouse an even bigger monster inside him: anger. He will also start attacking your self-esteem little by little, making criticisms on how you look in certain outfits, and then telling you that you should feel lucky that a girl like you has a millionaire match like him. Do not believe this. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out, and he’s the one who’s lucky that he has you.

It is always great for women to feel loved and wanted, and a little bit of jealous actions will be an indication. However, it has to have its limits and should be kept in control.