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yh bro i feel the same like when i am out in a club like ‘ do i try and dance with her or not’ its rejection and how down you feel…. but now i just drink more alcohol (only when i go out) to give me a boost of confidence it works cause it will feel like oh well i dont care that i got rejected, cause you will be a little drunk
Yeah, thats a good idea. I’ll have to try that later on.
but dont drink to much otherwise u will make yourself look stupid, and dont rely on it…. i only rely on it to get women, not in everday use.. just wen i am out injection of confidence
Yeah, thanks for the tip, was hoping someone would help me out lol
same=(
but what if you’ve been trying to impress people for so long that you dont even know who you really are and how you really act….how can i find myself again?
Well that isn’t easy to answer in a few words. It can help people to keep returning to the present, to be very very aware of what is going on in the here and now and to take time to be just by themselves quietly. Being still and quiet in today’s hectic world is a weird experience if you aren’t used to it. Though we live moment to moment with the consequences of the past, the best thing about the past is that it is over, it is past, it is done. Best wishes to you.
mam,im just a college student and every time a face a lot of people i always feel really nervous,my heart beats faster and faster,especially in reporting ,recitation in class i dont know why i always feel this, can you help me please can you give some advice that will really help me alot. T_T
mannn. I thought you were going to say how to do it in the video!
I’m 17 I’m not going to a Therapist Clinic.
You just find what your major life’s goals/ ideals/ priorities are and then you’ll never lose sight of your self.
the names bond,james bond!(book on shelf) lol
keep up the good work,my dear.
It comes from families with conditional love – the child is blamed for his mistakes and loved only when performing good. Thus you aim to be perfect and to impress others, so that you don’t feel rejected.
1. Stop trying to impress others. In all you do, find what you love in it, and do it because you love it, and remove all thoughts about impressing others whenever they come till they disappear.
2. Learn to Love people instead of trying to impress them
3. Pray to our Lord Jesus Christ 4 help
Ma’am, please help:
I’m usually not good at any sport other than basketball……because I played it regularly for one whole year……….I don’t play much of it now and people see me as a very funny thing as I’m not good at sports and I am nerdy. I should feel very confident when I play basketball, becuse I know that I play well, but then, I lose confidence and get scared thinking about what people would think about me…..and then; I’m not even able to play basketball well….
By the way, playing basketball is one thing about which I’m confident.
Please answer…..please
Try doing good to the world like giving things away to who needs it more.
I used to really lack confidence, but one day it just dawned on me what the key is to be untouchably confident, and it really does work. It’s all about BELIEVING in YOURSELF!
Think about it. Why do people lack confidence, what is the root of it? It always come down to, “I just won’t be able to handle it, I can’t do it, I’m not capable”. Stop believing that nonsense. Tell yourself (through constant affirmations- google it) that “I know I can handle it, I believe in ME”.
i have always been a negative and a sarcastic person i just can’t help it i kinda get a kick out of it. but i lack self confidence i generally hate myself !
I’m confident when I make a cup of tea!
im quite a confedent person with people i know, but when im with people i dont know tend to try and act all smooth and i end up thinking about what the other person thinks of me and i start to think about other things , its hard for me to explain and i lose confdence then. but i do love drama im quite energetic about it but in class tlking with girls, i do something stupid and my confedence bar drops empty
please help
Im confident online. I wanna be confident in real life. IM GONNA DO IT!!
same!
good crap
I feel confident with my closest friends.
I give you credit with the things you say compared to the other crap that is on here. You are right with the fact that we are all confident, even when you say you are not confident, you mostly likely said it with confidence. Try it, debate with someone that swears they lack self confidence, and they will confidently tell you that they do (it’s funny). The real challenge is using it when you need it, that is the real dilemma in human life.
But the funny thing, when people say those things they say it with confidence. Think about it, when we say ‘I can’t do it’ we say it with so much subliminal confidence we do see it. So the real problem is where we direct our naturally ability to have confidence. I found that out as a young man, but it is still a challenge to direct it towards what I want. So I guess it really comes down to having faith that every thing will turn out alright in what we can’t see, if that makes sense to any one.