Comments on: How To Build Self-Confidence With Hypnosis – Chapter 4 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/ Build and gain self-esteem & self-confidence, deal with anger, jealousy and insecurity! Fri, 30 Jul 2010 23:22:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: alanden http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3153 alanden Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:26:30 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3153 The answers to all of your questions are in this series of videos. So I suggest that you watch the whole series again, but this time have an open mind. The answers to all of your questions are in this series of videos. So I suggest that you watch the whole series again, but this time have an open mind.

]]> By: passwordresetisbroke http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3154 passwordresetisbroke Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:21:22 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3154 Thanks for being willing to discuss btw Thanks for being willing to discuss btw

]]> By: passwordresetisbroke http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3155 passwordresetisbroke Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:20:59 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3155 Actually my parents were very supportive, perhaps over protective, I beleive most of it stems from others, you know "friends", collegues stuff like that. What would you say is a decent way to deal with overcritical/overdemanding and or just offensive for the sake of it people you have to deal with? How does it work by the way? I understand you are trying to focus on the good, and ignore/accept the bad in yourself, but is doing that via an rote really enough to get over ingrained perceptions? Actually my parents were very supportive, perhaps over protective, I beleive most of it stems from others, you know “friends”, collegues stuff like that. What would you say is a decent way to deal with overcritical/overdemanding and or just offensive for the sake of it people you have to deal with?

How does it work by the way? I understand you are trying to focus on the good, and ignore/accept the bad in yourself, but is doing that via an rote really enough to get over ingrained perceptions?

]]> By: alanden http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3156 alanden Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:08:43 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3156 Unless you are either too lazy to do so, you are looking for attention or sympathy, or you enjoy the punishment that you seem to love to heap upon yourself due to some experiences you may have had. Maybe you couldn't do anything to make your father or mother or spouse happy with you - at least in their opinion. So you allowed them to convince you that you are worthless. Unless you are either too lazy to do so, you are looking for attention or sympathy, or you enjoy the punishment that you seem to love to heap upon yourself due to some experiences you may have had. Maybe you couldn’t do anything to make your father or mother or spouse happy with you – at least in their opinion. So you allowed them to convince you that you are worthless.

]]> By: alanden http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3157 alanden Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:08:26 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3157 In all seriousness, it works in ALL cases. You don't understand how it could work, but yet it is working exquisitely well for you. The problem is that you are using it to convince yourself of how worthless you are. NOW, just turn your words, thoughts, mental images, and actions around by 180 degrees. In all seriousness, it works in ALL cases. You don’t understand how it could work, but yet it is working exquisitely well for you.

The problem is that you are using it to convince yourself of how worthless you are. NOW, just turn your words, thoughts, mental images, and actions around by 180 degrees.

]]> By: passwordresetisbroke http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3158 passwordresetisbroke Wed, 23 Dec 2009 22:58:39 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3158 In all seriousness though, does this whole, convince yourself, and it becomes true really work, if so in most cases or in some, as Ive honestly never really given it a proper try but I just dont understand how it could work. What is the logic behind it? In all seriousness though, does this whole, convince yourself, and it becomes true really work, if so in most cases or in some, as Ive honestly never really given it a proper try but I just dont understand how it could work. What is the logic behind it?

]]> By: alanden http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3159 alanden Wed, 23 Dec 2009 22:54:20 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3159 Okay, good then, you've made your decision. So good for you! See boys and girls, this proves that we create our own reality by our thoughts, words, and actions. Okay, good then, you’ve made your decision. So good for you!

See boys and girls, this proves that we create our own reality by our thoughts, words, and actions.

]]> By: passwordresetisbroke http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3160 passwordresetisbroke Wed, 23 Dec 2009 22:47:30 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3160 nah id rather just drown myself in booze, generally my attempts to improve are failures (to general degrees of hilarity.) nah id rather just drown myself in booze, generally my attempts to improve are failures (to general degrees of hilarity.)

]]> By: alanden http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3161 alanden Wed, 23 Dec 2009 22:38:28 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3161 Now that you've recognized and analyzed the problem, you can either make a decision to do something about it, or make a decision to remain the same. It's all totally up to you! Now that you’ve recognized and analyzed the problem, you can either make a decision to do something about it, or make a decision to remain the same.

It’s all totally up to you!

]]> By: passwordresetisbroke http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/comment-page-1/#comment-3162 passwordresetisbroke Wed, 23 Dec 2009 22:30:46 +0000 http://gain-selfesteem.com/how-to-build-self-confidence-with-hypnosis-chapter-4/#comment-3162 IN what area of life do I lack confidence All. What causes me to lack confidence My alarming ability to fail at the simplest tasks. My general tendancy to mis-understand instructions My general tendancy to unwittingly communicate in a way that others find hard to understand The fact that everyone I have ever met is better at everything I have ever tried than I am My general unpleasantness to be around, both visually, aurally and olfacoraly I dont want to list any more. there is more though. IN what area of life do I lack confidence
All.

What causes me to lack confidence
My alarming ability to fail at the simplest tasks.
My general tendancy to mis-understand instructions
My general tendancy to unwittingly communicate in a way that others find hard to understand
The fact that everyone I have ever met is better at everything I have ever tried than I am
My general unpleasantness to be around, both visually, aurally and olfacoraly

I dont want to list any more. there is more though.

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