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You can start fantasizing meeting them and talking to them. Each time you create the fantasy see yourself as a totally calm and confident person. You could also order my program called “Self-Confidence!” and overcome your shyness and live a better life because of it.
I do that. Yet I think by doing this I’ve become a dreamer. Any help
Possibly you are doing “that” incorrectly. Children go to school and have teachers with experience guide them. They don’t learn language, math or science on their own because having teachers is far more efficient.
Similarly, trying to learn how to reprogram one’s unconscious by picking up little bits and pieces from Internet posts leaves out the little details that bring success.
The difference between a dreamer and one who is successful is that successful people take inspired action.
Thank you for your videos.
quick question, I seem to get nervous around this girl only when she’s with her friends, I can confront her when she’s alone however any tips?
What you are describing is called stage freight, and I have a special session specifically for that purpose in my “Self-Confidence! program on Cd’s. It is available on my web site.
Thank you very much for this informational videos. You are helping me and many other people to live a beter life and to feel good about themselves.
Thanks again.
Thank you
Thank you for the videos. The problem is that the first thought that comes to my mind is always negative. What should i do to change it?
We have an NLP pattern that is called the “Flash” – some call it the “Swish”. This is a great pattern for setting up new conditioned responses and it can be used to train your unconscious to flash positive thoughts in place of the negative ones.
It is far too complicated to explain how it’s done in this little space. I include it in most of my recorded programs, including my Self-Confidence program.
Thank you!
Very helpful series,
Thanks.
do you use this pattern on these videos on youtube ? or do you use other patterns ? witch ones ? now don’t tell us that you don’t use any nlp thing to get people buy you’re programs becouse that’s not true , and i think you should be honest about it
The Flash (Swish) is not a pattern that can be used covertly. As far as selling, it is my job to be as persuasive as possible. Is there something wrong with being a good salesperson? Not as far as I or anyone else who makes his/her living by selling is concerned.
If you are really concerned about it, I suggest that you stop watching TV commercials or listening to radio commercials. While you are at it, stay out of all retail stores. And for Pete’s sake, do not visit any e-commerce web pages.
oki , i apreciate you’re response , i was just trying to find a decent person that makes these kind of programs , as i whant to buy a few and don’t whant to end up with my brains fu..ed
( i stoped watching tv 5-6 years ago )
thanks alot for being honest , i’ll go out now and check you’re site
IN what area of life do I lack confidence
All.
What causes me to lack confidence
My alarming ability to fail at the simplest tasks.
My general tendancy to mis-understand instructions
My general tendancy to unwittingly communicate in a way that others find hard to understand
The fact that everyone I have ever met is better at everything I have ever tried than I am
My general unpleasantness to be around, both visually, aurally and olfacoraly
I dont want to list any more. there is more though.
Now that you’ve recognized and analyzed the problem, you can either make a decision to do something about it, or make a decision to remain the same.
It’s all totally up to you!
nah id rather just drown myself in booze, generally my attempts to improve are failures (to general degrees of hilarity.)
Okay, good then, you’ve made your decision. So good for you!
See boys and girls, this proves that we create our own reality by our thoughts, words, and actions.
In all seriousness though, does this whole, convince yourself, and it becomes true really work, if so in most cases or in some, as Ive honestly never really given it a proper try but I just dont understand how it could work. What is the logic behind it?
In all seriousness, it works in ALL cases. You don’t understand how it could work, but yet it is working exquisitely well for you.
The problem is that you are using it to convince yourself of how worthless you are. NOW, just turn your words, thoughts, mental images, and actions around by 180 degrees.
Unless you are either too lazy to do so, you are looking for attention or sympathy, or you enjoy the punishment that you seem to love to heap upon yourself due to some experiences you may have had. Maybe you couldn’t do anything to make your father or mother or spouse happy with you – at least in their opinion. So you allowed them to convince you that you are worthless.
Actually my parents were very supportive, perhaps over protective, I beleive most of it stems from others, you know “friends”, collegues stuff like that. What would you say is a decent way to deal with overcritical/overdemanding and or just offensive for the sake of it people you have to deal with?
How does it work by the way? I understand you are trying to focus on the good, and ignore/accept the bad in yourself, but is doing that via an rote really enough to get over ingrained perceptions?
Thanks for being willing to discuss btw
The answers to all of your questions are in this series of videos. So I suggest that you watch the whole series again, but this time have an open mind.