Becoming an alpha male is most guys dream. This is because the alpha male take the lead, while the rest follow. The alpha male usually has what it takes to date and marry any woman of his choice, and can get most people eating off his hands.
Going from a beta male to an alpha male is a mindset shift. I hear people say that becoming an alpha male requires being rich, handsome, tall, speaking fluently or in a certain way, etc. These qualities are all good, but they are not required for you to become an alpha male. If you have been living your chances to luck, or struggling in the background, becoming an alpha male who the ladies are drawn to and other guys envy can start from now if you decide. One thing I have to tell you is: you have to appreciate and be good enough for yourself before others will appreciate you and perceive you as good enough for them. You have to accept the fact that no woman or situation is out of your league.
Confidence is the main quality of an alpha male, and confidence in men is one quality that knocks women off their feet. Following what I said earlier, building confidence is a shift in mindset (self hypnosis can help you build confidence), powered by actions. Stop doubting yourself or focusing on your shortcomings, make women believe that you know what you want and that you are always in charge of your affairs. Be very relaxed when handling situations, make cool, calm, and calculated moves and never show anxiety. You should always take the lead with women, never say things like: “do you wanna to go bowling or catch a movie?” don’t! Ask her to the movies if that feels that’s appropriate for the evening, or just take her bowling if you feel a bit of fun and play will do both of you good. Women like relaxing while their men decide for them, but if you feel it will be appropriate for her to pick given a certain setting (things women do better), then make her understand that you are permitting her to do so because she can make better decision on that than you can. This shows that you are in charge, but you still acknowledge her strengths.
Don’t be afraid to use cocky humors around women, this is what alpha males do and women love it even when they pretend not to. Just like men, women seek thrill if not better than men, but tend to be conservative about it because of cultural expectations. Everyone enjoys great sex when it comes down to it. If you always paint a picture of a guy who is very nice, sensitive to women’s feelings, and suppress all of your physical needs, women will find you boring and always put you in that undesirable “friend” zone because you are simply playing a woman’s game. However, don’t be raw or vulgar. Getting the right balance of words is necessary, allow your body language, eyes, and facial expressions do more for you. What women really want is a guy who really loves and cares about them, but at the same time has that bad boy, no nonsense edge. Women don’t really like guys that they feel too comfortable around, that’s why alpha males keep women on their toes.
People usually think of alpha males as insensitive people. You can be the ideal alpha male by possessing all the alpha male qualities, and also have respect and regards for people’s feelings, this way you won’t be the stereotype alpha male who gets all the women without being able to keep a relationship or marriage.
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