Get Off Your Buts and Take The Stand to Improve Your Life, Business And Relationships

Sean Stephenson, Author of “Get off Your Buts”, gives you 3 standing lessons for you to implement once you get off your “buts”.  The act of getting off your buts is the first step in achieving happiness in your life, business and relationships.  The 3 “buts” of Fear, Excuses and Insecurity have kept you paralyzed for a significant amount of time in your life.  They will never disappear completely but at least you may manage them using the personal development.  These 3 “buts” may reappear at any time so it is critical that you implement the 3 following standing lessons immediately.

Sean’s standing lesson #1 is to connect with every one. Communication is the exchange of information, while connection is the exchange of humanity.  We meet different people throughout our life.  Have you ever met someone for the first time and it seem like you have known them forever?  They are definitely some people that we connect with easily and quickly. Have you ever met someone who you couldn’t get away from them fast enough?  This is where the real work comes about because the concept of Universal love to everyone may be tough sometimes.  This concept sound simple but connecting with everyone is a very tall order. Learning to accept and love you is the best way to learn to live with the man in the mirror.



The third and final way to stand is the ability to laugh at you.  You have to find humor in situations that you find very stressful.  We laugh at the expense of others many times, but anyone with the ability to laughs at themselves will go a long way in life.  We must not take life too seriously, because the more we are attached to the outcome the more stress we bring into our lives.  For example, you follow a schedule maintenance process on your family vehicle yet when you drive your van you are always stressing that it might break down at anytime leaving your family stranded.  You have done everything you could possible do to prevent your van from breaking down so being worried about when it will breakdown only adds undue stress to you.  If we focus on the process and not take ourselves seriously, then we would be on our way to healing our life, business and relationships.   When you can truly laugh at yourself the closer you will be to being at peace with you.

How do you eat a big elephant? The answer is one bite at a time.  The 3 standing lessons of Sean Stephenson of connecting with everyone, connecting with you and being able to laugh at yourself is a tall order but once you get off your “buts” you will be able to implement these changes in your life.  You have been on your “buts” for a long time so continued vigilance in making the necessary changes are critical.  The alternative is continuing to head down the road of destruction.  The simple act of getting up off your “buts” is the first step and the 3 standing lessons will lead you to a more fulfilling life.  Are you ready to take a stand?