Friendships: Jealousy and Envy!

Friendships:

Jealousy is the #1 killer.

A jealous friend is a friend that normally wants the other person’s life and how they look because they’re starving for attention because they don’t get enough attention from others.

Now this type of jealousy is very dangerous and they normally don’t like themselves.

Most of the time, these friends really don’t know why they’re so jealous of the other person because they have insecurity issues such as being insanely jealous of their friends and they’re usually uncomfortable in their own skin and don’t want to see their friends shine more than them or do better and prosper. These types of friends will never wish you well and they have absolutely no self-confidence whatsoever because they truly believe that they’re not the most beautiful thing in the world. They’re usually looking for attention before so when their friends receive a lot of attention and they don’t like it.

Again these types of women blame themselves everyday because they don’t like their body image or facial features and truly believe that their ugly.

Newsflash: It’s all about self-esteem and what you feel inside. These women are uncomfortable with the way they look.

When shopping with their friends: The jealous girl will basically get upset and throw tantrums because their not used to living that lifestyle of Glamor and refuse to see their own friends happy because they’re unhappy with themselves.

They say that beauty is only skin deep, but I truly believe that beauty comes from the inside and outside.

Ladies, don’t you get tired of your friends being so envious of you and say that you’re the attention whore. I know I am and I’m not going to change the way that I look, not ever.

Ways you can tell when a friend is really jealous of you:

-They start talking about how many possessions you own and how much they wish they’ve had the same things as you.

-When they do stupid things to purposely to get the attention that their friend normally gets on the regular.

-When they get upset when someone else brags about you.

-Too many compliments at one time with a crazy devilish look on their face.

-When they normally say Oh, you’re so lucky and I wish that I had your life, and it’s not fair or you’re more beautiful than me, and feel that they can’t ever measure up to you or your looks.

-Oh I wish I had your boyfriend and how did you get him? and I wish I was you because you get more attention than me.

-Usually want to live in your shadow and walk in your shoes.

I have a friend which I know that deep down inside that she’s burning up with jealousy because she’s very envious of me and always say that I’m more beautiful than her and I live a perfect life.

Although, we’re not that close anymore and she broke that bond between us.

The point I’m trying to make is that you need to watch your friends and the company that you keep because some friends can be so dangerous to a point where they want to kill you or set you up because they feel that they’re not in a better place and just want your life so they do devious things to get over or try to take advantage of you and play a role like their really your friends when in all actuality, they’re really not your friends because they want what you have and just can’t seem to get it.

You ever watch those movies and you see friends killing their friends because they’re so jealousy and miserable. When that happens they won’t be accountable for anything when they appear in court in front of the judge because they’re officially crazy and end up pleading temporary insanity, so be careful and watch your friends.

But you know what they say, Misery loves company!

These jealous women normally want what you have including your boyfriend, and just know that they can’t have him.

But will the jealousy ever stop?

Know this: Ladies should always love yourself no matter what and you have to think highly of yourself because if you don’t, no one else will, and you should never wish to walk in another person’s moccasins because you never really know what they had to do to get ahead and be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.

Ladies always remember: You should always do things to make you happy, never mind anyone else and how they live their lives, just live your life and eventually you’ll live that so-called perfect life that you claim that your friend has so that way you can live it too.

When it comes to friendship: Never wish to walk in someone else’s shoes.